The Dating Advice Girl Podcast
Empowering singles in the dating process
Ep.169-The Dating Advice Girl Podcast-Consent Guidebook Contributor Sex Coach Leigh Montavon
February 19, 2019 12:23 AM PST
Ep.169-Here's my interview with one of the contributors in my consent book, The Consent Guidebook (www.TheConsentGuidebook.com), Sex Educator Leigh Montavon. On this episode, we chat about enthusiastic consent, the nuances of consent, how to make asking for consent fun and sexy, and why boundaries and important in the consent conversation.
About Sex Coach Leigh: Leigh Montavon is a Sex Coach and Clinical Sexologist, as well as a writer, presenter, and educator. She specializes in working with, and is strongly connected to, the LGBTQIA+, kink, and non-monogamous communities. Leigh offers sex and relationship coaching to individuals in the Los Angeles area and via Skype from anywhere in the world. She writes a twice monthly column, “Ask Sex Coach Leigh,” for the Take Back Your Sex blog. She also hosts and facilitates a monthly women’s/genderqueer/non-binary polyamory discussion group. Leigh believes that a healthy sexuality is key to a happy life, and she deeply values body positivity, sex positivity, comprehensive sex education, intersectional feminism, and social justice.Ep.168-The Dating Advice Girl Podcast-Consent Guidebook Illustrator Seth Wade at Ohayocon 2019
January 23, 2019 06:37 AM PST
Ep.168-Part 3-Consent Guidebook illustrator and artist Seth Wade and I discuss our collaboration process designing my consent book, The Consent Guidebook (www.TheConsentGuidebook.com) with attendees at Ohayocon 2019. We also talk about Seth's interesting journey as an artist, educator, and why he wanted to be a part of this book. Our workshop attendees also started a lively discussion about dating in the MeToo era as well as dating in a small town environment.Ep.167-The Dating Advice Girl Podcast-Ohayocon Consent Townhall Discussion
January 18, 2019 01:20 AM PST
Ep.167-Part 2-On this episode, I'm leading a discussion with attendees at my consent townhall discussion at Ohayocon 2019. We’re talking about how social awkwardness can lead to consent violations, ways convention organizers can make cons safer for cosplayers, and the impact that the MeToo movement has had at conventions. Shout out to Trickssi from the Cosplayer Survivor Support Network for suggesting various resources and solutions during our discussion.Ep.166-The Dating Advice Girl Podcast-Ohayocon Consent Chat w/Actor Jason Marsden, Drag Performer Oriana Peron, Actor Michael Sinterniklaas
January 15, 2019 12:12 PM PST
Part 1-On this episode, Actor/Producer Jason Marsden, Drag Performer Oriana Perón, Actor/Producer Michael Sinterniklaas and I have an honest and lively conversation about consent, cosplay, and Hollywood in my Cosplay & Consent session at Ohayocon 2019. We share personal stories and revelations around respecting the boundaries of others and ways we’ve all dealt with boundary-crossers.
Actor/Producer Jason Marsden - Twitter & Instagram @JasonMarsden @MarsPresents
January 08, 2019 03:36 AM PST
Ep.165- Here's my interview with one of the contributors in my consent book, The Consent Guidebook (www.TheConsentGuidebook.com), Trauma and Sexuality Coach Jimanekia Eborn. We chat about how the conversation around consent has a generational element, how caring about consent will set you up to win in relationships, and more!
About Jimanekia: Jimanekia Eborn is a Sex Educator with a decade of experience in mental health work. Her focus within sexual education is teaching adolescents sexual education via More Than Sex-ED and though private classes, consultations, media appearances, and more. She's also the Director of Education for a nonprofit called More Than 'NO.' She is based in Los Angeles, California. SEWJim is expanding to all offer consulting for television, books, and film on the context & representation of sexual trauma, as well as sexual education. After years of watching cringe-worthy representations of survivors & sexuality in television, she wants to push forth a true narrative through this avenue and support the creative process.Ep.164-The Dating Advice Girl Podcast-Consent Guidebook Contributor Dr. Yoni Alkan
December 12, 2018 01:09 AM PST
Ep.164-Here’s my interview with one of the contributors in my consent book, The Consent Guidebook (www.TheConsentGuidebook.com), Sex Educator and Speaker Dr. Yoni Alkan. We chat about his role as a cuddle party professional, cisgender men's role in the consent conversation, and more!
Yoni Alkan is a Sexual Educator with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Masters in Conflict Resolution and Mediation, he is also a professional cuddler with Cuddlist.com and a Certified Cuddle Party Facilitator in San Francisco. Dr. Yoni Alkan is the creator of www.elementsofsexuality.com, he has been writing about sex, sexuality and relationships since 2011, and he is a global speaker on various Human Sexuality issues. His expertise are in alternative relationships and in improving our dating landscape through consent.Ep.163-The Dating Advice Girl Podcast-Dear Dating Advice Girl
December 02, 2018 10:53 PM PST
On this episode, answering your questions in a full episode of Dear Dating Advice Girl. This episode's questions include How Do I Deal With No One Being Interested In Me, How Do I Ask For A Kiss, Sometimes I Feel Bad Saying No To Sex, How Do I Tell My Partner That I Feel Disrespected, and How Do I Apologize For Insulting My Girlfriend's Appearance. Send your dating questions to info@TheDatingAdviceGirl.com or private message me on Twitter or Instagram @DatingAdviceGrlEp.162-The Dating Advice Girl Podcast-Consent Guidebook Contributor & Speaker Jean Franzblau
November 25, 2018 08:19 PM PST
Ep.162-Here’s my interview with one of the contributors in my consent book, The Consent Guidebook (www.TheConsentGuidebook.com), Sex-Positive and Consent-Positive Speaker Jean Franzblau. We chat about her role as a cuddle party professional and she and her colleagues teach consent at their events. We also discuss ways to express our boundaries to others.
About Consent Guidebook Contributor Jean: Jean Franzblau is a sex-positive and consent-positive speaker who walks her talk. When she discovered the importance of her own sexual empowerment, she wrote a play about it and performed it in ten cities. When she realized how important hugs and affection were to her emotional and physical health, she founded Cuddle Sanctuary – which has already offered 300 events and served over 500 clients in Los Angeles. Jean has presented at sexuality conferences on both coasts and for audiences around the country and abroad. She created the presentation “Sex After #MeToo” to share the message of consent to college campuses. Jean has been featured on BuzzFeed, Good Mythical Morning and Rolling Stone. Visit Jean at http://CuddleSanctuary.comEp.161-The Dating Advice Girl Podcast-Dear Dating Advice Girl
November 15, 2018 12:07 AM PST
On this episode, I'm answering your dating questions! 'Dear Dating Advice Girl' questions include 'How Do I Tell My Friend That I'd Like To Date Them', 'How Do I Say No To A Second Date', 'Should I Shave For Him' and more! Email your dating questions to info@TheDatingAdviceGirl.com or PM me on instagram @DatingAdviceGrlEp.160-The Dating Advice Girl Podcast-Consent Guidebook Contributor & Sexual Health Educator Nicole Holmes
November 06, 2018 12:13 AM PST
Here's my interview with one of the contributors in my consent book, The Consent Guidebook, Sexual Health Educator Nicole Holmes. We chat about the difference between Yes Means Yes and No Means No, enthusiastic consent, safe words, and more.
About Consent Guidebook Contributor Nicole Holmes: Nicole is a sexual health educator with a focus on HIV/STI prevention among youth and Black women in addition to LGBTQ sexual health education. She contributes commentary to sexual health news using the Facebook page Nicky Hearts Public Health in addition to the hashtag #SafeSexSaturday. Nicole has taught sexual health education to students in juvenile detention centers in addition to sexual health education in rehab facilities as well. Nicole believes in utilizing a health model of de-stigmatizing sexuality and making sexual health accessible for all. Check out more about The Consent Guidebook and it's contributors at www.TheConsentGuidebook.com.
Erin Tillman, 'The Dating Advice Girl' is the On-Air Radio Personality for The Dating Advice Girl podcast. The show consists of dating tips for singles, consent education, the 'Dear Dating Advice Girl' segment where she answers your dating questions, celebrity and relationship expert interviews, and much more!
Erin Tillman is an inclusive Dating Empowerment Coach, Certified NLP Practitioner, Author, Speaker, and TV/Radio/Podcast Host based in Los Angeles, California. In 2018, Erin was awarded the Gender Equity Award presented by The California National Organization For Women. She is dedicated to empowering ALL SINGLES IN ALL LIFESTYLES to have happy and enjoyable dating lives that best suit their dating & relationship wants, needs, and objectives. For almost 10 years, she has helped singles successfully navigate through the early stages of dating through dating, empowerment, and consent workshops on college campuses and at conferences, through her book The Consent Guidebook and over 100 dating & consent-related articles for various lifestyle and dating sites, radio and TV segments and through her podcast, The Dating Advice Girl Radio Show (voted one of the Top 10 Best Dating Podcasts on the Web in 2013 and listed as one of the Best Places for Dating Advice on Twitter).
She has been featured on Lifetime Network, Buzzfeed, ABC7 Los Angeles, and mentioned in The Guardian, Men’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, The Chicago Tribune, just to name a few media outlets.
The Dating Advice Girl, Erin Tillman, is an inclusive Dating Empowerment Coach, Certified NLP Practitioner, Author, Speaker, and TV/Radio/Podcast Host based in Los Angeles, California. She is dedicated to empowering ALL SINGLES IN ALL LIFESTYLES to have happy and enjoyable dating lives that best suit their dating & relationship wants, needs, and objectives. For almost 10 years, she has helped singles successfully navigate through the early stages of dating through her book, The Dating Guidebook, over 100 dating-related articles for various lifestyle and dating sites, radio and TV segments and through her podcast, The Dating Advice Girl Radio Show (voted one of the Top 10 Best Dating Podcasts on the Web in 2013 and listed as one of the Best Places for Dating Advice on Twitter).
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